Friday, January 03, 2014

I grieve for you

Spike, age 13.75
March 25, 2000 - Jan 2, 2014

We let him go yesterday. It was the saddest thing I've ever had to do. But that takes me immediately to a place of gratitude - my life has been so blessed and lucky that the saddest day of my adult life came at age 38 for a dog who had lived a full and happy life, 10.5 years with us.

A short list of what I'm thankful for, in honor of Beagle:

  • I have a husband who not only gets why I am so sad, but also feels it deeply himself
  • Our vet, Dr. E, who we only met a few weeks ago. So professional and compassionate. I wish we had met her when our guys were young.
  • The three road trips we took with him: my solo trips to Vancouver and the Bay Area, and our family trip to Canada.
  • We had some time to spoil him and say goodbye.
  • The vast number of things that Beagle taught us: 
    • patience (oh the patience he required!) 
    • how to deal with gross things that need to be cleaned up
    • how to live with someone who hears and understands what you're saying but just chooses not to do what you're asking 
    • the best place for napping is the one with the soft blanket and pillows, rules be damned
    • don't settle for kibble when there is lunchmeat available

Thank you for choosing us, little guy.

14 comments:

  1. Such a great post for Spike. He was loved and will be missed greatly.

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    1. As long as I still get to be codenamed BeagleBabe on your blog, I'm cool :)

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  2. So glad you had time with him in the end (and for years! ). So sad for you guys.

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    1. Yes, it was definitely one of those lucky unlucky things. Sigh.

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  3. They are never here long enough. Hugs.

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    1. It's true. And thanks for the work you do Andy. Our vet was really amazing and I'm so grateful to her.

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  4. Such a lovely tribute. I wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time...warm hugs to you and your family!

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  6. So sad to hear the news...sending big hugs to you and your family.

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  7. Many understand and hope you find solace in your memories.

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  8. So sorry for your loss. Love the tribute.

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  9. Lovely memories of a wonderful friend. <3

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  10. I'm so sorry for your loss Anandi. Hugs and comfort to you all.

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  11. I'm so sorry for your loss!! I've gone through 2 major dog deaths and they are the hardest. I hope you are doing ok! Big hugs to you!!

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